Family pictures are a wonderful way to capture memories, but let’s be honest—getting the kids prepped and ready can feel overwhelming. The good news? A little planning and the right mindset can make all the difference! Here are some friendly tips to help make your family photo session go as smoothly as possible.

1. Keep the Pressure Off

It’s natural to want your kids to behave perfectly for photos, but putting too much pressure on them can actually backfire. If they feel stressed, they’re more likely to act up. Instead of saying things like, “You HAVE to smile and be good!” keep the mood light and positive. Trust your photographer—they’ve worked with kids before and know how to bring out those genuine smiles!

2. Don’t Overhype the Photos

Talking about the family pictures too much ahead of time can make kids feel pressured. Instead, keep it simple. Mention it once before the day of the session, something like, “We’re going to take some fun family pictures, and I hope you’ll smile for a few!” On the actual day, frame it as a fun outing: “We’re going to see our photographer friend today! Are you excited to check out her cool camera?” Keeping the conversation casual helps kids feel relaxed and natural.

3. Offer a Fun Incentive (But Don’t Overdo It!)

A great way to keep kids excited is to plan a small treat after the shoot. Whether it’s ice cream, a favorite snack, or a trip to the park, let them know beforehand that something fun is planned for later. However, don’t keep reminding them during the session—it can make them overly focused on the reward instead of enjoying the moment.

4. Dress Right Before the Shoot

Kids and clean clothes don’t always mix! To avoid last-minute spills or messes, wait until right before the photos to dress your little ones in their outfits for pictures. That way, there’s no stress over keeping them clean before the camera starts clicking.

5. Parents, Set the Tone

Kids pick up on their parents’ emotions, so your mood matters. If dad is grumpy and disengaged, the kids will be too. If mom is feeling stressed, they’ll sense it. Try to keep the vibe upbeat and fun! Play with your kids, joke around, and let go of perfection. The best photos often come from candid, joyful moments.

6. Adjust for Sunset Sessions

Sunset sessions are gorgeous, especially in the PNW, but they can be tricky with little ones who have an early bedtime. If your session is scheduled for golden hour, try adjusting nap times that day so your kids are well-rested and happy. A later nap can help them stay in a good mood. Trust me, the views are worth it!

Enjoy the Moment!

At the end of the day, family pictures should be a fun experience, not a stressful one. Keep expectations realistic, go with the flow, and remember—some of the best photos come from the in-between moments of laughter and play. With the right mindset and preparation, your family session will be filled with genuine smiles and beautiful memories!

About Forgette Photo

Hi, I am Brittany! I am a PNW family photographer that serves both Washington and Oregon. I truly love documenting families as they grow and change. I offer both mother’s day mini sessions – a perfect quick and easy shoot- and full family sessions that have amazing benefits that include dad as well. Let me help you gift the mother in your life something she will truly cherish.